Sometimes all I need from my partner....
Oct. 25th, 2006 01:05 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
swehSometimes all people can focus on is "sex, sex, sex." Sure, sex is good (however you define it, be it penis in vagina; or anal; or blow jobs; or eating out your lover; or being held in chains, blindfolded, wearing nipple clamps while your lover masturbates unseen in front of you pulling your chains... ahem, is it warm in here?) but sex isn't what it is all about.
Sometimes just sharing time with them, watching and laughing at cheesy TV and then cuddling up to them and stroking them while we drift off to sleep is what I need. Listening to them; talking to them; just sharing an experience with them. I would happily forgo having sex with a person in order to be closer to them; my right hand can take care of any resulting frustrations in private. We can still be together, demonstrating love and care for each other without any demands or expectations from each other; we can be comfortable with each other.
The past two nights I got this. Monday with Tori had some fun shopping, a meal, chat, some "sex" and lots of cuddling. Tuesday with Julie had cheesy TV (The Breed is definitely a "bad movie night" candidate!) and chat and snuggling in bed afterwards. I'm so lucky to have two ladies who care so much for me!
Sometimes just sharing time with them, watching and laughing at cheesy TV and then cuddling up to them and stroking them while we drift off to sleep is what I need. Listening to them; talking to them; just sharing an experience with them. I would happily forgo having sex with a person in order to be closer to them; my right hand can take care of any resulting frustrations in private. We can still be together, demonstrating love and care for each other without any demands or expectations from each other; we can be comfortable with each other.
The past two nights I got this. Monday with Tori had some fun shopping, a meal, chat, some "sex" and lots of cuddling. Tuesday with Julie had cheesy TV (The Breed is definitely a "bad movie night" candidate!) and chat and snuggling in bed afterwards. I'm so lucky to have two ladies who care so much for me!
